2020 will be a new decade! Can you believe that? I’m still amazed at the fact that 2019 is almost over much less we are entering into a NEW DECADE!!! Where in the world has time gone?
On Social Media there is a new challenge floating around. I am sure there are plenty of people that have taken part in it. I absolutely love seeing them. The best part is to see what people write about their own pictures and some are so very critical of themselves and then you read the comments from friends and family. On the other had you have people that have had some drastic changes and they are so proud of what they have accomplished and of course the Congrats in the comments. It’s really interesting to read. So my question is this....Have you done the Decade Challenge? Well, I did. I had an eye opening experience doing the challenge. It’s something that has “bothered” me for some time but this was the perfect timing for me to be able to share it.
Here is what happened for the Decade Challenge with me. I’m wondering if may have happened with any of you????
So, obviously it is 2019 and we are to post a current picture next to one that is from 10 years ago. Simple, right? WRONG!!!! My current picture was NOT a problem. I probably take some type of “selfie” 5 out of 7 days of the week because of my business and/or running. That was super easy.
I honestly thought finding one from 10 years ago would NOT be that big of a deal. I would go into Facebook and look through the photo albums. I scrolled.......and scrolled.....and scrolled.....and scrolled more. I thought “well this is ridiculous!”. I went to my Husbands profile and scrolled.....and scrolled......and FINALLY found one but it’s actually not quite 10 years. It was a moment!
A BIG MOMENT!
I knew that I was one that would hide behind a camera. Years ago I would just cringe from having my picture taken. It was before we had all of the fancy cameras and such. Me in the picture would JUST NOT HAPPEN. At that point in time, my thoughts never went to the fact that when my children or family looked at pictures for memories, I would not be in them.
Let me say that again......when my children or family looked at pictures for memories, I WOULD NOT BE IN THEM! Let that sink in for a minute. OUCH! Then the tears!
The bottom line......MAMA, STOP HIDING BEHIND THE CAMERA! Your family and children are NOT going to look at your pictures and pick them apart. They are not concerned with your messy hair, your 5 pounds that you gained, your postpartum weight, or your menopausal metabolism. THEY JUST WANT YOU!!!
My challenge for you, especially with the holidays coming, GET OUT FROM BEHIND THE CAMERA! Be IN the picture. It doesn’t have to be perfect. JUST BE REAL!!!!!!
